By Mark Victor Hansen | January 12,
2016
Your
attitude determines the state of the world you live in. It is the foundation for every success and
every failure you have had and will have. It will make you or break you.
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Your
attitude controls your life. But the good news? You control your attitude.
Attitude
creates the way you feel about people and situations. Your actions are a result
of your attitude—which in turn creates a reaction from others.
It is your
attitude toward others and the universe that determines the resulting attitude
toward you. Have a positive, joyful attitude and
you’ll have positive, joyful results. Put out a bad, negative attitude and
you’ve failed before you begin.
Basically, what you think is you get.
I know it
sounds simple, but, the truth is, it is:
Where do negative attitudes come from?
Negative
attitudes come from thinking negative thoughts over and over until they become
part of your subconscious, part of your personality—they become habitual. You
may not even realize you have a negative attitude because it’s been with you
for so long. Once you have a bad attitude, you expect failure and disaster. And
that expectation turns you into a magnet for failure and disaster.
Then it
becomes a vicious cycle: You expect the worst, so you get the worst. Your
negative beliefs are reinforced. So you expect the worst, and you get the
worst.
Related: 13 Optimistic
Quotes to Stop Being So Negative
So, how do you shift your thoughts and create a positive
attitude?
It takes
work, but creating anything of value takes work. In order to have a new
attitude, you have to change your subconscious thinking. How? By
analyzing every thought you have until positive thinking
becomes habit. You’re merely replacing an old habit with a healthy habit, much
like replacing smoking with exercise.
You can’t
just stop being negative—you have to replace those negative thoughts with positive ones.
Some people
would say, “But negative situations are a reality. They just show up in
everyday life.”
This is
absolutely not true. Situations are a reality, yes. They do show up, yes. It is
your attitude that makes a situation positive or negative.
It’s time for you to realize that you are in control of how
you think and feel—no one else on earth has this power unless you give it away.
Take control
of your attitude, your state of mind, and you take control of your results.
Related: 5 Things You Can Do to Improve Your Mindset in 20 Minutes
Mark Victor Hansen Mark Victor Hansen is best known as the co-author for the
Chicken Soup for the Soul book series and brand, setting world records in book
sales, with over 500 million books sold. Mark also worked his way into a
worldwide spotlight as a sought-after keynote speaker, and entrepreneurial
marketing maven, creating a stream of successful people who have created
massive success for themselves through Mark’s unique teachings and wisdom. With
his endearing charismatic style, Mark captures his audience’s attention as well
as their hearts. Having spoken to over 6,000 audiences world-wide with his
one-of-a-kind technique and masterful authority of his work, time and again he
continues to receive high accolades from his audiences as one of the most
dynamic and compelling speakers and leaders of our time. Mark and his beautiful
wife, Crystal Dwyer Hansen, have co-written their newest book to be released in
April 2020 called, ASK! The Bridge from Your Dreams to Your Destiny. Articles
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