By YEC | January
2, 2020
Failure is a part of
life. It’s inescapable, but failure is only a loss if you don’t learn anything
from it. Most entrepreneurs have fallen in their lives—some more severely than
others. However, those who make it to the pinnacle only do so by dusting
themselves off and taking stock of what their failures have taught them.
Instead of seeing a failure as an insurmountable setback, these businesspeople see
it as a learning experience and a guide to a different path.
How does one get over
the idea of failure as a stumbling block? To learn more, we consulted 12
contributors to YEC, in order to find out how they managed to let go of past
failures and embrace the future.
1. Use your failures to
succeed.
If it was easy, you
wouldn’t have failed. Your failure was likely the result of you doing something
difficult, something new and challenging. Take a moment to be proud that you
even attempted whatever led to the failure. Remind yourself of the honor that
lives in that and be proud that you are doing something that is worth the
potential to fail. Look back for motivation to get it right next time. —Matthew Podolsky, Florida Law Advisers, P.A.
2. Track your progress
and accomplishments.
When we fail, it is
very easy to feel like we are doomed to repeat our mistakes. The best way to
shed that negative feeling is to track—via notebook, web browser or phone
app—the tasks that you have finished daily. These tasks can include if you have
exercised that day, how many items you have completed on your to-do list or how
you got approval on a project. We are more successful than we think we are. —Patrick Barnhill, Specialist
ID Inc.
3. Mourn, then move on.
I’ve failed as an
entrepreneur many times. I have found that being open about my failures with
family and friends helps lift the burden and breathe new life into me.
Ultimately, I have to make a decision to let it go and stay focused on the
present and future. It just takes some time to process failure… kind of like
the stages of grief. Mourn the failure, then move on. —Robby Scott Berthume, Bull
& Beard
4. Don’t dwell on past
failures.
Dwelling on past
failures beyond the essential learning is a pure and simple waste of time. That
is not the way to create success. Of course, we want to learn and change our
behavior—after all, they say an apology without change is simply manipulation.
So instead of dwelling on the past or pacifying the issue with a false sense of
moving on, make a real pact with yourself and internalize the lesson. —Nicole Munoz, Nicole
Munoz Consulting Inc.
5. Use mistakes to
determine which way to go.
Failures have a
wonderful benefit of showing you what direction not to go, and we never stop
learning from them. I find limitations (like failure) help really open up a
clearer pathway forward, and when there seems to be a million possibilities,
that really does help in navigating. It’s like the game Battleship: Each miss helps
you close in better on your target. —Richard Fong, Bliss Drive
6. Be excited to start
anew.
It is crucial to
remember that past failures do not define you, yet how you react to them does.
Failing at something simply means that you now get to begin again with a whole
new understanding and perspective of what you are doing. Be excited to start anew. —Rana Gujral, Behavioral
Signals
7. Avoid pointing
fingers at others.
If you blame others for
your failures, you’ll never be able to move on and succeed. It’s important to
take accountability for your actions like an adult so you can move forward
knowing you’re doing the right thing. It’s more difficult to embrace new
beginnings if you’re holding onto old grudges or blaming others for your own
wrongdoings. —Stephanie Wells, Formidable Forms
8. Accept where you’re
at.
Are you in denial about
where you are in your career versus where you want to be? Sometimes we lie to
ourselves to help us cope with our shortcomings and failures, no matter how
long ago they happened. It’s important to stay honest with yourself because
that’s the only way you’ll be able to move forward to better things. —Jared Atchison, WPForms
9. Remember that you’re
a different person now.
The feeling of having
failed in the past can be hard to overcome. It’s helpful to remember that
you’re no longer the exact same person you were before. Today, you’ve learned a
number of valuable lessons. You’ve met different people and had different experiences.
You’re a different person thanks to the experiences you’ve had. Promise to
learn from the past and you’ll do better this time around. —Syed Balkhi, WPBeginner
10. Shift your mindset
to gratitude.
To move forward after a
difficult failure, shift your mindset to one of gratitude. Consider that
challenges and failures are the universe on your side, calling you to grow.
Without failures and challenges, life would be deeply boring and unfulfilling. —Rachel Beider, PRESS Modern Massage
11. Don’t look at
mistakes as defining features.
We tend to look at our
mistakes as our defining features. The truth is, most of our inner turmoil is
self-inflicted and we are the only ones who notice! If you want to let go of
your past failures, you have to acknowledge the fact that you have made
mistakes, you learned valuable lessons and you’re ready for new beginnings. —Chris Christoff, MonsterInsights
https://www.success.com/11-tips-for-letting-go-of-past-failures-and-embracing-the-future/
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