Tuesday, December 3, 2019

When rudeness invades your workplace: 7 tips for ending incivility


December 3, 2019
Think about your workforce. Do some of your employees require more "managing” than others? Do some enjoy pushing the limits, while others seem totally clueless about the problems they cause?
The best thing to do with this kind of incivility is tackle it head-on. Try these 7 tips for dealing with rude or difficult employees.
1. Focus on what you want to happen, not on how you feel. The emotional response will kick in first, but the trick is not to act on it.
2. Be assertive. Don't expect an employee to read your mind. Let him or her know when you're annoyed, upset or disappointed.
3. Give and request frequent feedback. Don't stew over what an employee may be thinking. Ask.
4. Model the type of behavior you want. Exhibit the kind of upbeat, forward-looking professionalism you expect from your staff.
5. Deal directly and discreetly. Choose face-to-face talks in private to discuss an employee's attitude or behavior.
6. Always document. Keep a record of all communications to prevent lies or faulty recollections from taking over later.
7. Be gracious. Someone's rudeness doesn't give you the right to respond in kind.

No comments:

Post a Comment