Growing up, I never thought I would ever need to be worried about
keeping up with information--the fast pace of changes around me, the noise and
excitement about the newest model of gadgets, or the overwhelming amount of
information shared on social media and the web 'every second of every second.'
Real personal growth doesn't take place just by automatically
surfing online or following others on social media. Although the constant
pursuit of new information is more critical than ever, information alone isn't
enough to create major transformation within you, or effectively result in
personal growth. It's how we internalize and utilize that information that is
life changing.
True change and transformation can only take place when we
intentionally set aside time to reflect on the information and knowledge we
have and use it to focus on growth. It is in fact that reflection which enables
us to turn knowledge into powerful insight. And it is this insight that gives
us the wisdom and courage to ultimately change our behavior.
Oftentimes, after serious reflection, we discover it is really
our own self-limiting beliefs about ourselves that is standing in our way.
Below are seven tips I've developed for how to expand your own self-limiting
beliefs to 'get out of your own way', achieve your goals and empower your
dreams.
1. Ask yourself better
questions
People often ask themselves the wrong questions and come up with
the wrong answers. Instead of thinking "Am I worthy of this?"
"Can I really do this?" Think:
"Why not? Why not me? Why not now?"
"Of course, I can do this!"
"How can I do more? How can I be more effective?"
2. Surround yourself with stronger
people
Don't just hang out with people who make you feel comfortable.
Spend time with others who are driven to achieve and excel, who aren't afraid
to 'push the envelope'. Seek out friends and colleagues you admire who
challenge you to aim higher, push harder and exceed your expectations.
3. Hire a professional
coach
We all have blind spots. Mentors and coaches have a unique
ability to see in us what we can't see in ourselves. Their guidance is critical
in helping us focus on opportunities and solutions instead of problems and
challenges. Their expertise speeds up growth and change. In different ways,
mentors and coaches guide us to get the best out of ourselves.
4. Celebrate small victories and raising
the bar
By celebrating your small victories, you attract bigger ones.
Every time you celebrate a victory, you build confidence and momentum. You
believe you can do more. Rewarding yourself for your accomplishments provides
incentive to keep going and creates excitement about 'raising the bar'.
5. Forming new
habits
Habits make us and habits break us. You can't grow to new
heights with old habits.
Your success is hidden in your daily agenda. Dedicate the time
to figure out new ways to solve problems. New habits help change your
direction, which has a direct impact on changing your ultimate destination. New
directions lead you to new possibilities.
6. Investing in
yourself
If you're not growing yourself, you can't help others grow.
Don't be afraid to invest in things that help you grow and learn. Education
doesn't end just because we finish school. Invest the time and money in
learning new skills. Develop your expertise. Invest in your personal and
professional growth-it builds self-esteem.
7. Sharing your ultimate
purpose in life
Ask yourself what you really want out of your life. What do you
want your legacy to be?
Define what you really want to accomplish and stand for. Have
the courage to share it with the people around you. They will help you stay
motivated and focused on what is most important to you. Then share the
gratification that comes from reaching your real potential and 'getting out of
your own way.'
Now that we've discussed the seven tactical ways to expand your
self-limiting beliefs, are you going to take charge of your life and business?
Now it's time to have a life by design, not just by default.
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